Pregnancy and Birth: Midwives

November 2nd, 2009 by Dionna | 2 Comments
Posted in Pregnancy and Birth

Over the next few weeks, I’m going to do several posts on pregnancy and birth. I hope to share a few things that were helpful to me; I hope they will help other parents as well.

Thoughtful, respectful discussion is strongly encouraged. My general disclaimer is this: I am not writing to condemn parents who do things differently. I only wish to share information that has influenced the way we live and parent. Perhaps it will give others something new to consider, perhaps not. I welcome your input, because I am always learning too. The important thing is that we are all doing our best to raise our children in safe, loving environments.


As soon as we found out we were expecting, I did what many pregnant American women do: I started watching “A Baby Story” religiously. The dozen or so episodes I watched left me with a relatively unpleasant impression of labor and delivery.

Doctors, speaking with an impatient and detached authority, often paint their laboring patients as helpless and at the mercy of their own bodies. Women who are completely capable of delivering babies safely and naturally are forced into situations in which they feel as if their choices have been taken from them. The medicalization of birth has enabled doctors to place mothers into false dilemmas that lead to a snowball of unnecessary interventions. These interventions (induction, monitors, mandated delivery positions, c-sections, etc.) can be more harmful to both mother and newborn than the scare tactic alternatives waved around by doctors.

Searching for something different, I borrowed a copy of “Baby Catcher: Chronicles of a Modern Midwife,” and it completely changed my mindset about modern obstetrics. Baby Catcher exposed me to a completely different theory of pregnancy and birth. Birth should not be viewed as a series of emergencies; it is not a disease that needs to be monitored for signs of danger. The midwife model of care treats pregnancy and birth as normal, healthy processes. Midwives work with parents to empower mothers and make birth the joyous experience it should be.

The majority of pregnancies are normal, and all women should be able to enjoy their birthing experience regardless of who is present at the birth (doctor, midwife, and/or birth team) and where the woman chooses to have the baby (at a hospital, a birth center, or at home).


Two of the major decisions women make when pregnant are 1) where to give birth and 2) who will attend the birth. Even though research has shown that births in hospitals, birthing centers, and at home are equally safe, a hospital birth is a given to most women. (3) In fact 99% of women give birth in hospitals. (4) We chose to have Kieran in a birth center with a midwife. I decided that I wanted to work with a midwife because we wanted a natural birth and more personal attention. When we have a second baby, we will opt for a home birth.

Only about 8% of births in the United States are attended by a midwife. (1) This number is drastically lower than the rest of the world, where more than 80% of births are attended by midwives. (2) If more women were exposed to the midwife model of care, I am certain that our numbers of midwife-attended births would climb rapidly.

The Midwife Model of Care

The midwife model of care is a much different approach to pregnancy and birth than the medical model. Midwives are committed to you: they spend more time with you during your prenatal appointments, they support your informed decisions about your care and birth plan, they strive to build your confidence, they are nurturing and empowering, and they reduce unnecessary interventions while helping you cope naturally during labor and birth. (5)

Midwife-assisted births result in fewer interventions including induction, rupture of membranes, episiotomies and cesareans; they also have lower rates of newborn and mother deaths. “These results reflect a fundamental difference in perspectives. Physicians are trained to look at pregnancy in terms of what might go wrong, and to intervene at the first sign of trouble. Midwives ‘approach birth as a normal, natural, healthy life event . . . .'” (6)

In a recent study, researchers compared three groups of women, those with: 1) planned home births attended by a midwife; 2) planned hospital births attended by a midwife; and 3) planned hospital births attended by a physician. All women in the three groups were eligible for a home birth (in other words, they were all “low risk”). Among the three groups, the babies born at home had the lowest rate of perinatal death. Women who were assisted by a midwife (both at home and in the hospital) were significantly less likely than women assisted by a physician to have obstetric interventions (fetal monitoring, assisted vaginal delivery) or adverse maternal outcomes (perineal tears, postpartum hemorrhage). Babies born at home were less likely to need resuscitation at birth or oxygen therapy after 24 hours, they were also less likely to have meconium aspiration. (7)

Several studies have demonstrated that women who birth with midwives are less likely to need medical interventions such as episiotomies and cesarean sections. (8) While “obstetricians. . . . perform cesarean sections on 19% or more” of healthy low-risk women, only 3 to 4% of women with midwife-assisted births need a cesarean section. (9)

In addition to the physical benefits of having a midwife-assisted birth, there are also monetary benefits. “Americans could save $13 billion to $20 billion annually in health care costs by developing a network of midwifery care providers, demedicalizing childbirth, and encouraging breastfeeding.” (10)

From a personal standpoint, I can attest to the patience and decreased intervention of a midwife. Kieran was posterior, and I found out later that my 30ish hours of back labor would have easily translated to a c-section at any hospital. Fortunately, my midwife allowed me to labor in my own time – first in bed, then in the tub, then with a half dose of Stadol (to help me sleep; it didn’t work), then with nipple stimulation and a plethora of different labor/pushing positions, and finally on the birthing stool where Kieran was finally born looking up into my eyes.

My midwife made me feel like a mother before I held my baby in my arms. She helped Tom and I take ownership of pregnancy and birth, and she left us alone to labor together. I remember rocking freely back and forth in Tom’s arms in the long, frozen hours of the night before Kieran’s birth. At a hospital, I would have likely been hooked up to an IV and monitors, tethered near a barred bed. At the birth center I wandered wherever my contractions led me, and I received no internal exams until I wanted one – not in any of my prenatal visits, not until I had been laboring for approximately eight hours.

If you have never thought about anything except an OB and a hospital birth, you may want to reconsider. Try reading Baby Catcher; see if the stories Peggy relates move your heart. You have alternatives, and it is not too late to switch from an OB to a midwife (we did not meet our midwife until I was six months pregnant).

This site and this site contain resources to help you find a midwife in your area. This site contains some thoughtful questions you can ask midwives or obstetricians when you are interviewing potential birth assistants.


(1) (“Choosing Your Birth Practitioner”)

(2); see also Choosing Your Birth Practitioner

(3) Choosing Your Birth Practitioner

(4) The sources I found revealed that 99% of women give birth in hospitals while only 1% of women give birth at home. Surprisingly, I was unable to find a number for babies born in birth centers, so I am unsure if they are lumped into the 99% statistic.,8599,1898316,00.html; see also




(8); see also (“Out of Hospital Midwifery Care”);;

(9) Out of Hospital Midwifery Care


2 Responses to:
"Pregnancy and Birth: Midwives"

  1. Dionna

    I watched A Baby Story a lot while I was TTC because I wanted a baby so badly and it was as close as I could get to seeing babies being born. It annoyed me a bit and I decided it was just dramatized for t.v. but mostly, I just wanted to see the babies and the rare mom who was educated enough to do a natural birth. Really, it didn't bother me that much until I was better educated and seeing all those sabotaged breastfeeding relationships, poorly educated parents and medical lies just makes me so angry.

    I was told, though, that I couldn't have a midwife and a homebirth in my state, until I was 34 weeks pregnant and found our parenting group. I signed up with a midwife right away and was dumped at 38 weeks, after getting all ready for my homebirth. I was so depressed, I ended up falling into an intervention trap once I was actually in labor and of course, ended in a cesarean and the misery of my body being "broken." All of that probably contributed to the issues I had with my second birth (though nobody was really sure what was wrong, but Naomi had clear signs that something had been wrong, aside from malpresentation), but at least I had a VBAC.

    Next time I plan on having a homerbith with a midwife, which I should have had the first time.

  2. Dionna

    I saw an OB for the first half of my pregnancy after I'd convinced myself that a hospital birth would be just fine since it was all our insurance would cover. (It turned out the midwife cost the same as our out-of-pocket expenses for a hospital birth). We had a great OB who was pregnant herself and planning her own unmedicated birth, but after visiting the hospital and not getting very supportive vibes from the nursing staff I recontacted the midwife. Talk about night and day. Before I would go to an appointment and have one nurse check my weight, blood pressure and urine, go to the second waiting room, seen nurse number 2 who would check the baby's heart rate. We'd wait more and the doctor finally came in for maybe five minutes to basically ask if we have any questions. Rarely was any information volunteered or advice given unless it directly related to one of my questions.

    When we started seeing our midwife it was so different. We spent about an hour at each visit, she took all my vitals, explained what they all meant, asked about what was going on that might explain differences, etc. She also wasn't shy about telling me what I needed to be doing (Kegels, diet & exercise, etc.), which made me feel more confident. It was also nice to have someone I'd built a relationship with attend Elliot's birth rather than a nurse and OB I'd never met since it was whoever was on call. I was able to move however I wanted and spent the entire second stage in a birthing pool where I was actually allowed to give birth. I am very happy I chose to go with a midwife. I think it is an important decision to make if you are trying to avoid intervention, which was my main fear about childbirth.

    The two books that most influenced me to have a home birth with a midwife were "Pushed" and "Ina May's Guide to Childbirth" and watching "The Business of Being Born" and knowing that that's what I wanted my birth experience to be like.

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