To answer your question.
What I do is NIP proudly. Last week I NIP’d during a cake walk, lol. I also talk about BF comfortably around my family who needs BF education and my nieces and nephews (other side of family) so they can see it as normal. In addition I hand out copies to “the womanly art of breastfeeding” to all my acquaintances who are preggo. If they don’t want it I tell them to just pass it along. It has a nice section on NIP.

I am glad there are other moms out there who understand why it needs to be talked about and normalized… I think many “mainstream” moms have the “just go and do it, and stop talking to me about it.” It is unfortunate that we have to talk and try to normalize it, but that is where we are. And it doesn’t make us “obsessive,” as some people say… we just want to help it to be normalized. One day, we won’t even have to hear the word “lactivist,” because we won’t need them once breastfeeding is just seen as biologically normal, the standard (at least, I hope that day will come!).